Transform your identity, transform your life

Sunday, November 20, 2022

10am-3pm ET

There are thoughts that will change bits and pieces of a pattern, or a behavior. You can usually figure these out on your own.

And then there are thoughts that will fundamentally shift the baseline of your experience of yourself.

Thoughts that will transform your relationship with your own mind and self.

Identity-shifting thoughts.

Because any major transformation we want in our lives requires that we become a different person to achieve it. 

If you want to go from working a 9-to-5 to running your own business, you have to shift your identity from an employee to a CEO (and believe me, those are two VERY different mindsets!).

If you want to change from someone who never moves your body to someone who runs marathons, you have to shift your entire identity from couch potato to marathon runner. 

If you want to change from someone who yells and bribes and threatens their kids to someone who practices effective gentle parenting, you have to shift your entire identity from stressed-out parent to peaceful parent. 

It’s not just a series of models. It’s not just a layer of new actions.

When you try to layer new thoughts or actions on top of an existing unchanged identity, you won’t actually get a transformation.

If you’ve tried to change a habit before and failed, this is why.

If you’ve tried to achieve a big goal before and failed, this is why.

You can’t be someone who hates running and runs marathons. You can’t be someone who is constantly yelling at their kids and practices effective gentle parenting. You can’t be someone with an employee mindset and successfully create and run a business as a CEO.

You have to learn how to actually shift your identity.
And that does involve changing your thoughts, but it’s a whole other level of cognitive change. You can’t just change your daily thoughts.

That’s what I’m teaching you to do during Clutch BRAIN BALL 2022: The Identity Shift Process.

The Brain Ball is our annual one-day coaching intensive workshop. It’s all virtual and accessible from anywhere in the world. It’s absolutely free for Clutch members who have Gold status as of the date of the event – and for everyone else, it costs way less than a new phone or a day at the spa.

I knew that this event would be great, but it exceeded all my expectations. The coaching was really powerful: seeing Kara cut through all the different kinds of BS that our brains come up with is so helpful, and I know that I will get something different out of it every time I go back to watch it again. I loved the level of coaching that both assumed we knew the tools but not that we were using them well. I loved the tough love!
– Bessie

And this year, it’s all about how to shift your identity to become the person you want to be.

Plus you’ll get to raise your hand to ask me questions or get live coaching from me.

And you’ll get a ticket to a special Clutch Coach Teach-In where the Clutch Coaches will talk about their own identity shifts and how they overcame challenges in their thought work to create them. So you have multiple inspiring examples to follow in your own life.

It’s all happening Sunday November 20th, 10 a.m. – 3 p.m. EST. Online-only, from anywhere, on Zoom. Replays will be available for registered attendees.


  • 10:00 a.m. The Identity Shift Process with Kara
  • 12:00 p.m. Lunch Break
  • 1:00 p.m. Clutch Coach Identity Shifting Teach-In
  • 2:00 p.m. The Identity Shift Closing Circle with Kara

This day-long coaching immersion event is typically only open to Clutch Gold Members. But this year, I’m opening it up to everyone!

$250 at time of registration

I loved watching Kara coach. It’s magical! Her coaching is a blend of compassion and tough love and straightforward logic that makes you laugh, cry, and want to go forth and do models and be unstoppable. I left the event feeling energized, just by working on my own thoughts throughout the day based on Kara’s coaching of others.
– Jenna
Show up as the wonderful you that you are now – and leave already on your way to the incredible you that you’ll be next.