There are thoughts that will change bits and pieces of a pattern, or a behavior. You can usually figure these out on your own.
And then there are thoughts that will fundamentally shift the baseline of your experience of yourself.
Thoughts that will transform your relationship with your own mind and self.
Because any major transformation we want in our lives requires that we become a different person to achieve it.
If you want to go from working a 9-to-5 to running your own business, you have to shift your identity from an employee to a CEO (and believe me, those are two VERY different mindsets!).
If you want to change from someone who never moves your body to someone who runs marathons, you have to shift your entire identity from couch potato to marathon runner.
If you want to change from someone who yells and bribes and threatens their kids to someone who practices effective gentle parenting, you have to shift your entire identity from stressed-out parent to peaceful parent.
It’s not just a series of models. It’s not just a layer of new actions.
If you’ve tried to change a habit before and failed, this is why.
If you’ve tried to achieve a big goal before and failed, this is why.
You can’t be someone who hates running and runs marathons. You can’t be someone who is constantly yelling at their kids and practices effective gentle parenting. You can’t be someone with an employee mindset and successfully create and run a business as a CEO.
The Brain Ball is our annual one-day coaching intensive workshop. It’s all virtual and accessible from anywhere in the world. It’s absolutely free for Clutch members who have Gold status as of the date of the event – and for everyone else, it costs way less than a new phone or a day at the spa.
Plus you’ll get to raise your hand to ask me questions or get live coaching from me.
And you’ll get a ticket to a special Clutch Coach Teach-In where the Clutch Coaches will talk about their own identity shifts and how they overcame challenges in their thought work to create them. So you have multiple inspiring examples to follow in your own life.
It’s all happening Sunday November 20th, 10 a.m. – 3 p.m. EST. Online-only, from anywhere, on Zoom. Replays will be available for registered attendees.