(aka Stop Giving An đź’© What Other People Think Masterclass)
october 28
An Eye-opening,
efficient,
90-minute, live masterclass
- LEARN HOW TO CREATE YOUR OWN VALIDATION
- STOP FEELING LIKE PEOPLE-PLEASING IS LIFE OR DEATH
- AND STOP OUTSOURCING AUTHORITY OVER YOUR LIFE SO YOU CAN GRAB IT BACK
Understand how your brain learns its thought patterns, why we are so hung up on getting validation from other people, and why we give our power away. Plus, gain tools and techniques you can start using immediately to reclaim your authority.
(If you can’t afford the registration fee, financial assistance is available! Please email info@redesignyourmind.com and we will help you out. If you can afford it, just know that when you sign up you’re supporting not only your own growth but the accessibility of this work for others who can’t!)
Pop Quiz! (Don’t worry, it’s ungraded – I see you, perfectionist brain).
In the last week have you:
- A. Felt anxious wondering what someone else was thinking about you.
- B. Agonized over a decision out of fear of getting it wrong (whether it's as small as what to get for lunch or as big as whether to take a new job.
- C. Prefaced a contribution at work with "This may be dumb but..." or ended one with "does that make sense?"
- D. All of the above!
If you chose any of those options – and especially if you chose D – you’re not alone. I would have chosen D for most of my life.
Here’s what you have in common with everyone else who took this quiz, and with past me, too:
We were all raised in a society that teaches us that men and women are different in important ways.
That men can be assumed to be capable, but that women need to work hard to prove themselves.
That men are natural leaders, and women are natural followers.
That men have inherent worth and value, but that women’s worth and value depends on what they produce, how they look, and what everyone else thinks about them at all times.
So is it any wonder that if we are socialized as women, we grow up looking outside of ourselves for, well, EVERYTHING?
We look outside of ourselves for our self-esteem.
We look outside of ourselves for our self-worth.
We look outside of ourselves for help in making decisions in our own lives.
Women are taught that their value is like the stock market — it rises and falls based on the opinions of everyone who interacts with them.
And that means that by the time we get to be adults, we’re lost at sea.
We are buffeted by the waves of other people’s ideas, priorities, values and beliefs.
We don’t know how to drop anchor and ground into our own priorities, our own beliefs, and our own authority in our own lives.
BUT IF YOU WANT TO CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT,
you NEED to know how to drop that anchor.
The more chaotic the world is — climate, recession, war — the more important it is that you know how to chart your own way and create your own outcomes.
You can’t create the career you truly want when you’re constantly trying to do what your parents, best friend, and first boss told you to do.
You can’t create the relationship of your dreams when you’re constantly second-guessing yourself about your choice of partners, your life plans, and whether you’re even lovable to begin with.
You can’t have a life that feels bright and beautiful and bold and truly yours until you know how to identify what you truly WANT and how to stand your ground in going after it. Â
Let me be clear: There is zero shame in not knowing how to do this already.
You’ve literally been taught NOT to do it. You’ve been taught to people-please, to seek validation from others, and to outsource the authority for your life to everyone around you.Â
But it’s time for that to change.
(aka Stop Giving An đź’© What Other People Think Masterclass)
A live masterclass that will teach you how to change the three biggest obstacles to claiming your authority over your own life.
and Host of the UnF*ck Your Brain Podcast
KARA LOEWENTHEIL, J.D.
October 28, 2022
Just $37!
(If you can’t afford the registration fee, financial assistance is available! Please email info@redesignyourmind.com and we will help you out. If you can afford it, just know that when you sign up you’re supporting not only your own growth but the accessibility of this work for others who can’t!)
This masterclass combines:
What you’ll learn:
You’ll learn to stop people-pleasing and focus on what actually matters to you.
Imagine turning down something you don’t want to do guilt-free.
You’ll learn how to stop seeking validation from other people and how to create your own internal sense of security and worth.
Goodbye insecurity, hello self-confidence!
You’ll learn how to stop giving away your power and how to step into the authority to make your own decisions and create real change in your own life.
Which means you can decide what to get for lunch without a second thought — but you can also decide to quit your job and move to a llama farm in Costa Rica if that’s what you truly want. No? Just me?
In other words, you’ll finally:
- believe in your own ideas,
- feel brave enough to go after what you want, and
- be able to live your life without worrying about what other people think.
The Details:
The Claim Your Authority Masterclass
You’ll leave feeling more tuned into what you want and more confident you can make it happen.
Replays will be available.
How much does it cost?
These cutting edge coaching tools are normally only available inside the Clutch, my feminist coaching community. But for the masterclass only I’m making them available to everyone, at an even more accessible price.
It took me twenty years, two Ivy League degrees, and tens of thousands of dollars in coaching to learn and create the system I will be teaching in the Claim Your Authority Masterclass. When I only taught this work privately, a group program with me cost $10,000 (true story!).
But you have the chance to take this 90-minute masterclass that would normally be $250 – for just $37.
October 28
If you require financial assistance, please email info@redesignyourmind.com.
That’s about the cost of a coffee shop cold brew for a week.
It’s less than the amount you usually “accidentally” spend when you go to Target for paper towels and leave with a cart full of extra yoga pants and face cream you don’t really need.
And unlike the tenth pair of leggings that are just like your other nine pairs, this Masterclass is going to give you something you can’t get anywhere else.
It’s going to teach you the skills you need to take control of your own life and trust your own authority and power.
No yoga pants are that good, even if you do wear them to yoga
(and let’s be honest, sometimes we don’t even do that!).
Now that you understand why this is a game-changer, here’s all the info you need to prepare:
MEET KARA!
- I’m a life coach — a Master Certified one at that. And I used to be a constant people-pleaser, validation-seeker, and authority-abandoner.
- I lived my life in constant anxiety, insecurity, and disempowerment until my mid-30s. All the while earning a B.A. from Yale and a J.D. from Harvard Law, holding prestigious fellowships … and still never believing I really had any idea what I was doing or could be trusted to make my own decisions.
- But I did learn how to think rigorously during my previous career as a women’s rights lawyer. And those are the same brilliant skills I bring to my coaching, which is rooted in cognitive psychology-based techniques and feminist theory.
- Coaching taught me how to understand my brain and how to change it. And then I spent years putting together the rest of my expertise and experience into a cutting-edge coaching framework. All so that you can learn it in a fast, effective, life-changing method.
- So basically I’m a fun, feminist, non-judgmental combo of life coach, mentor, and hilarious best friend … except I give way better advice than your friends do. And I actually teach you how to act on it. You get it.
- Buckle up, buttercup. We’re about to kick the patriarchy straight out of your brain. It’s going to be so fun.
The world is always going to keep on turning.
There will always be so many things beyond our control. Whether it’s crisis on the global stage, or ups and downs in our personal lives.
What we can learn to control is how we show up to the challenges the world presents.
In fact, that’s what is essential. Because the more out-of-control the world feels, the more IN-control you need to be of your mind and your life.
That’s what claiming your authority gives you.
And that’s what we’re going to create in the Claim Your Authority Masterclass.
Let’s go.