Women are feeling behind, burnt out, and scattered
(even though we have more economic and social power than ever before).
But there is a way to go from feeling overwhelmed to taking full control of your life.
It’s all inside the monthly feminist coaching program:
Let me guess: Sometimes you feel confident, empowered, and even brave. Like you’re totally “on it.”
But most of the time, you’re looking at all you have to get done and freaking the f*ck out.
Have you ever wondered WHY it sometimes feels like you have two different brains — one that’s as organized as the Home Edit and one that feels more like the aftermath of a tornado?
There IS an explanation (keep reading).
You probably feel like an anxious, overwhelmed mess. And it’s NOT because you’re fundamentally flawed.
Spoiler alert: The culprit at the root of your “gotta be everything to everyone” thoughts is patriarchal conditioning.
It's not a coincidence that:
- Women in particular are suffering from exhaustion and burnout in staggering numbers.
- Most women experience imposter syndrome, anxiety, and people-pleasing.
- Women negotiate less, speak up for themselves less, and generally are more likely to feel disempowered in their own lives (especially if they are women of color, fat women, alternately-abled women, or part of any other disadvantaged group).
And, while it might feel like you have to be everywhere all at once just to keep up, prove your worth, and achieve your goals…
…the truth is this:
Sexism has gotten inside your brain. And it’s no wonder! Society has taught you how to think in ways that diminish, objectify, and devalue you.
You think things like “I have to hustle, push, and grind to show I’m worthy.”
And it seems like these are YOUR thoughts. But they aren’t!
They are messages from a patriarchal poison bottle that you don’t know how to recognize or change.
And what happens?
- You push through another day that feels way overloaded (and for some reason you keep saying “yes” to more things!).
- You don’t go after your dreams because what if you fail and what will people think?
- You hate your body, which only ever wants you to love it.
- You make less money.
- You play small.
- You stay in relationships that aren’t working for way too long.
- You care more about what other people think than what you think, even of yourself.
You’re smothering your authentic self and desires again and again and again, all to win some supposed “prize.”
And when that so-called prize never comes…what do we do to feel better?
We spend money and time on sh*t that doesn’t help us actually feel differently in the long run.
Listen, I love a good splurge at Sephora as much as anyone else. But a new lipstick isn’t going to solve that confidence problem when it’s caused by my thought that I’m not smart enough to be taken seriously at work. Right? Right.
YOU are not the problem. You, me, all of us are simply living in a world that doesn’t want us to like ourselves!
Why? Because treating ourselves with the respect we show others might “distract us from taking care of everything and everyone else.”
I’m calling bullsh*t on this!
The reality is that learning to be confident and deeply comfortable with yourself does NOT make you self-obsessed.
In fact, it clears up valuable brain real estate to get ultra clear, immensely focused, and shut out what’s between you and being on task, motivated, and getting done everything you want to (and then some!).
The challenge is in doing the thought work required to make the above feel second nature.
It’s time for YOU to join the feminist mindset revolution, get a handle on your thoughts, and become an organized, productive powerhouse.
Welcome to
A monthly feminist coaching program
The Clutch teaches you how to liberate yourself from the inside out. And the results look like:
- Not feeling like you need more hours in your day. (Because you’ve opened up so much time, energy, and focus by managing your mind.)
- Not wondering if you’re “doing enough”.(Because you know there aren’t gold stars for being overworked and overwhelmed. You know how to organize and prioritize on your own terms.)
- No longer fighting your brain to get more organized and productive. (Because now you know how to train your brain to set goals, and actually reach them.)
- Not caring if your boss is happy with you. (Because you are 100% happy with yourself and you don’t need to control what other people think about you in order to sleep at night.)
- Not feeling guilty as a working mom. (Because you know you’re doing an amazing job at work and at home, and you’re able to be present and enjoy each part of your life while you’re in it.)
- Not caring if other people think you are too loud, too much, too opinionated, too independent, or too badass. (Because you are all those things. And if people think you’re “too much” they can always go find less.)
Allow me to peel back the curtain and show you how the Clutch helps you make it happen!
Here’s everything you get inside the Clutch
EXPERT TRAINING & COURSES ($300 VALUE PER COURSE)
Each month, you'll unlock a new in-depth course of your choosing. From Friendship & Social Anxiety, to Work & Money, to Self Love & Self Acceptance, you'll pick and choose how you want to continue to rewire your brain and transform your life.
LIVE COACHING CALLS EVERY MONTH ($1,000 VALUE)
You can participate (and get coached!) in LIVE monthly coaching calls with Kara. Our Clutch Coaches also host weekly model calls so you can be supported as you work through your thoughts and deprogram the patriarchy.
THE FEMINIST MINDSET FIX ($1,000 VALUE)
Discover how to use a simple and life-changing self-coaching process to deprogram the patriarchy, build new thoughts that actually serve you, and create any change you want in your life.
BIPOC-ONLY COACHING CALLS ($400 VALUE)
The patriarchy and how we're socialized affects everyone, but the BIPOC community deals with additional layers of racism and socialization. That’s why we provide 1 call per month where BIPOC Clutch members can access safe and intimate coaching.
ON-DEMAND EXPERT GUIDANCE ($300 VALUE)
Get coaching support when and where you need it. Pop into Ask the Clutch Coaches to post your question and a coach will reply. You can also search topics to see responses to other chickens who may have had a similar question or challenge.
THE EXCLUSIVE CLUTCH FACEBOOK COMMUNITY ($200 VALUE)
24/7 access to a Facebook community of like-minded women, who are all committed to evolution, growth, and empowerment and are excited to trade ideas, discuss this work, and help you apply it to your own life.
Joining the Clutch gives you structure, accountability, and consistency in managing your mind — and that uplevels your whole life.
The total value of everything you get inside the Clutch is over $3,000 every month (or $36,000 per year if you’re counting)! But you’ll pay only a fraction of that to join.
Join the Clutch now for just $97 per month.
Yeah, you read that right. Just $97 per month that you can cancel any time (though, you won’t want to).
In short, It’s going to be your favorite place on the Internet as soon as you join.
So if I were you, I’d smash that join button now!
BONUS: Get really f*cking organized with instant access to the “Productivity & Time Management” course
The Productivity & Time Management course walks you through my entire productivity system so you can conquer your to-do list and move on to accomplishing bigger things in your life.
I’ll let you in on a little secret.
The reason you’re overwhelmed isn’t actually your job, your kids, your friends or your hobbies. It’s not even because you don’t have enough cute planners lying around.
It’s your brain.
And, when you learn to manage your mind, you will always feel like you have plenty of time to do everything you want to do.
The truth is, you can have the most perfect system in the world, but if you are afraid to do a task, feel overwhelmed, or think you’re confused, you won’t follow the system. You won’t get sh*t done.
Most systems out there (bullet journaling, inbox zero, the pomodoro method) don’t take into account…you guessed it…thought work.
That’s what makes THIS organizational system unique.
Yes, I teach you a five-part system that helps you organize, streamline, and execute your work so that nothing ever gets lost, missed, or past due.
But equally as important…
…I teach you a mental system to deal with the brain chaos that’s keeping you stuck in procrastination, mind fog, and feeling scattered.
This class is usually only available after you’ve been in the Clutch for one month. But, you’ll get it immediately upon joining!
As a reminder, here’s EVERYTHING you get inside The Clutch
EXPERT TRAINING & COURSES
($300 VALUE PER COURSE)
LIVE COACHING CALLS EVERY MONTH
($1,000 VALUE)
The Feminist Mindset Fix
($1,000 value)
BIPOC-only coaching calls
($400 value)
On-demand expert guidance
($300 value)
The exclusive Clutch Facebook Community
($200 value)
BONUS: Instant access to The Productivity & Time Management course
Total Value: $3,000+ per month
Total Cost: just $97 per month
What’s it like to be a member of the Clutch? Here's a month-by-month preview of your future.
After ONE month in the Clutch you’ll notice:
- You’re getting more done and starting to feel more confident about your abilities and your worth — which coincidentally has NOTHING to do with how “busy” you are.
- You just feel a bit more…chill.
- Your emotions aren’t so much of a rollercoaster.
- You’re a little nicer to yourself.
- You’re spending less time scrolling Instagram feeling bad about yourself.
After TWO months in the Clutch you’ll realize:
- It’s been a while since you took sh*t personally.
- You just feel less judgmental of yourself and everyone around you.
- You don’t get freaked out when something unexpected happens.
- You have more patience with yourself and those around you.
- You catch your reflection in the mirror and surprise yourself by thinking “Damn, looking good!”
After THREE months in the Clutch:
- Your brain starts coaching itself.
- You show up at work as the badass you always knew you could be.
- You’re naturally and effortlessly thinking more positive, productive, and helpful thoughts. And when you look back at your thoughts from month 1, you don’t even recognize some of them anymore.
- You show up in your personal life as the magnetic, loving, and happy woman you always wanted to be.
- You’re actually excited for the future, because you are so proud of the work you’ve already done that you can’t wait to find out where managing your mind and the Clutch are going to take you next!
And after that…
The sky’s the limit!
And the one thing you know for sure is that the Clutch will be there to help you get wherever you want to go.
The Clutch is the community of women you didn’t know existed. Once you join in, you’ll wonder how you’ve lived without it for so long.
AND it’s packed with all of the resources you need to truly unf*ck your brain, prioritize what’s most important to you, and show up as your best self.
One of the best parts of the Clutch is the diversity inside the community.
Meet the mind behind the feminist mindset thought work program, the Clutch!
Hi, I’m Kara. One thing I know is that women and people socialized as women are only going to be able to create true freedom when we truly feel free.
Not just intellectually, but emotionally.
Not just in theory, but in reality too.
I know this because I lived it!
I went to the fanciest of schools (Harvard and Yale, in fact). I marched in all the protests, I racked up every brass ring that was out there for me (hello judicial clerkship, academic fellowships, and feminist awards).
And I still felt terrible.
- I pretended to be confident but I was horribly anxious at any sign that anyone might be displeased with me.
- I claimed conventional marriage was outdated but was desperate for a romantic relationship to validate me so I could just feel normal.
- I knew that the media was making me feel terrible about my body but I couldn’t stop hoping that if I just lost 20 pounds all my dreams would come true.
Eventually, in my quest to feel better (and let’s be honest, to “fix” myself because I still thought I needed fixing), I discovered life coaching.
I got certified as a life coach, and then as a master coach, by the best coaching school in the world.
The tools I was learning to shift my thought patterns helped, and I started to help other women with their minds.
And then I saw it.
I realized that the thought patterns my clients were bringing to me weren’t isolated. They weren’t accidental. They weren’t random.
They were a product of the patriarchy.
They followed specific patterns that matched how women are socialized and taught to think about themselves.
And yet every woman coming to me thought that she was different. They thought they were crazy. They thought they were alone.
But they weren’t. They, like all women and people who identify as women, were simply caught in thought cycles imposed by a system that benefits from keeping them stuck, spinning their wheels and doubting themselves.
That’s when I realized that women deserve SO much more than feel good affirmations.
Instead, we ALL need concrete effective help getting negative social messages out of our brains for good.
I recreated all of my coaching tools using a feminist lens and tested them on my own brain.
They blew my mind, and my clients started breaking through to levels of confidence, self-love, and joy they had always imagined were possible for other women…but not for them.
Knowing intellectually about sexism doesn’t translate into self-acceptance or self-love. Because the women’s rights movement is a work in progress.
The Clutch is another step toward liberation. It starts with our own brains.
That’s why I’m inviting you to join me and a community of amazing peers in this one-of-a-kind program.
See you in there,
Kara
As a reminder, here’s EVERYTHING you get inside The Clutch
EXPERT TRAINING & COURSES
($300 VALUE PER COURSE)
LIVE COACHING CALLS EVERY MONTH
($1,000 VALUE)
The Feminist Mindset Fix
($1,000 value)
BIPOC-only coaching calls
($400 value)
On-demand expert guidance
($300 value)
The exclusive Clutch Facebook Community
($200 value)
BONUS: Instant access to The Productivity & Time Management course
Total Value: $3,000+ per month
Total Cost: just $97 per month
Self-coaching has given me deep love and compassion for myself.
It's empowering to be in the company of such strong, intelligent women from around the world – all dealing with similar thoughts and challenges.
I don’t think it matters how old you are to start working on yourself – in fact the earlier the better! I’m 22 now and I’m so grateful every day to have discovered this work when I did because it used to feel like every day was a struggle, and now I’m actually excited by uncertainty (isn’t that crazy!!).
A huge part of why this work is so effective is knowing that you’re not alone and it’s empowering to be in a group of such intelligent and strong women from all around the world. A lot of the time people will bring up things that you can 100% relate to and so (1) you realize you’re not the only one going through this, (2) you get insight on something you might have been too afraid to bring up, and (3) nobody is here to judge you. Even better, you also realize that by sharing your story and working through your thoughts, you might also be helping someone else.
Tempted to join but worried about how you'll find time to work through all these amazing resources?
Listen, I know, you have a lot on your plate already. But here’s what I can promise you:
When you don’t know how to say no, when you take on things you don’t want to do out of guilt and obligation, when you’re constantly worried about your own worth and what other people think of you, know what happens?
You feel exhausted and overwhelmed, all the time.
The Clutch is the answer to that problem.
Truly my love, it’s a no-brainer. I can’t wait to see you inside.
The Clutch helped me see my interaction in the world in a new way – LIFE CHANGING!
Watching others get coached shows me I'm not alone. The Clutch is inspiring!
As a reminder, here’s EVERYTHING you get inside The Clutch
EXPERT TRAINING & COURSES
($300 VALUE PER COURSE)
LIVE COACHING CALLS EVERY MONTH
($1,000 VALUE)
The Feminist Mindset Fix
($1,000 value)
BIPOC-only coaching calls
($400 value)
On-demand expert guidance
($300 value)
The exclusive Clutch Facebook Community
($200 value)
BONUS: Instant access to The Productivity & Time Management course
Total Value: $3,000+ per month
Total Cost: just $97 per month
Got questions about The Clutch?
I’ve got answers!
We have an entire library of curated courses that will allow you to focus on the things that interest you most. We have courses on body image, relationships, money, time management and productivity, and more.
Most importantly you will be learning tools that will help you manage your mind around anything that comes up for you.
The Feminist Mindset Fix course is essentially the cornerstone course for all things thought work.
We encourage everyone to work through that course first as it will help you set a new foundation. That being said, do what works best for YOU—you may be feeling super motivated around productivity and organization — in that case, feel free to start with the productivity and time management course!
As long as you’re at least 18 years old – yes! It is never too late (or too early) to begin thought work and change your life.
The world is going to keep coming at you with challenges, obstacles, and distractions.
But, with the Clutch, you have somewhere to go. You have a community and culture of practice and a space to work on your mind — so you’re a confident, massively productive, organized badass.
The Clutch is for YOU! Anytime. Anywhere. For anything.
Feminism and thought work isn’t just about being a better individual (though you will experience huge growth!) It’s about being part of a movement.
Join us won’t you?
As a reminder, here’s EVERYTHING you get inside The Clutch
EXPERT TRAINING & COURSES
($300 VALUE PER COURSE)
LIVE COACHING CALLS EVERY MONTH
($1,000 VALUE)
The Feminist Mindset Fix
($1,000 value)
BIPOC-only coaching calls
($400 value)
On-demand expert guidance
($300 value)
The exclusive Clutch Facebook Community
($200 value)
BONUS: Instant access to The Productivity & Time Management course
Total Value: $3,000+ per month