the replay

An Eye-opening,

90-minute masterclass

that will teach you

The Stop Second-Guessing Yourself Masterclass
Understand the three types of second-guessing, how to solve each one, and how you can start building the self-trust you really need to change your life. Plus, gain tools and techniques you can start using immediately to stop second-guessing yourself.
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Would you be surprised to learn that according to scientific studies,
second-guessing yourself too much can jeopardize your mental health?

It’s true! Just ask the American Psychological Association.
**May 2003, Vol 34, No. 5 

We’ve all heard, “Just trust your gut.”

But we DON’T. We don’t trust our guts. We don’t trust any part of ourselves!


Because society actually teaches women to second-guess themselves. About. Everything. All. The. Time.

Are you sure that’s what he said?
Are you sure that’s what you meant?
Are you sure that’s the right answer?
Are you sure you should be wearing that?
Are you sure you know what you’re doing?

Is it any wonder we don’t trust our own perceptions, thoughts, feelings, or decisions?

But it’s high time we learned to do just that.

Because second-guessing yourself means second-guessing your life.

It means never feeling good enough. Never feeling smart enough. Never feeling worthy enough.

Never feeling secure. About anything.

And that’s no way to live.

Which is why I’ve created the

This masterclass replay that will teach you how to eliminate self-doubt, stop people-pleasing, and start trusting yourself to make strong decisions.

access to This limited time replay will expire on May 2.

This 90-minute recorded masterclass combines:

Important neuroscience, nervous system research, and coaching tools into a unique way of hacking your brain. Most of the coaching concepts out there fail to include a crucial component of how your brain works: The way that society teaches you to think about yourself based on who you are and what kind of identities you have.

I’ve spent the better part of a decade synthesizing sociology, feminist theory, evolutionary biology and cognitive psychology to produce a cutting-edge coaching system that is unlike anything anyone else can offer.

I’ve taken decades of work and research and distilled it into easy but powerful practices you can start using right away to feel better fast. Who doesn’t want that?

"The teaching contained within this course is genuinely transformational. I've not heard anyone else teach on this topic in this way. I cannot recommend it highly enough."
– Anna C.

What you’ll learn:

You’ll learn how to stop seeking validation from other people and how to create your own internal sense of security and worth.

Goodbye insecurity, hello self-confidence!

You’ll learn how to stop people-pleasing and trust your own idea of what is happening and what you want to do about it.

You’ll learn how to stop second-guessing yourself and trust yourself – so you can move your life forward without fear.

Which means you can decide what to get for lunch without a second thought — but you can also decide to quit your job and move to a hummingbird farm in Costa Rica if that’s what you truly want.

In other words, you’ll finally:

  • believe in yourself and your experience,
  • be able to live your life without worrying about what other people think, and
  • feel brave enough to go after what you want.

The Details:

Stop Second-Guessing Yourself Masterclass replay

Getting rid of self-doubt and developing self-trust doesn’t just make life feel better. It also is the key to getting unstuck in any area of your life. In this masterclass, we’ll take a deep dive into how getting rid of self-doubt is the key to making big moves – or small ones – to change your life. The replay will expire on May 2.

"I was actually in the process of making a really difficult decision. Part way through, I was able to make the decision without doubting myself, I knew why I was making the decision, made the choice and didn't beat myself up afterwards!!"
- Joey F.

How much does it cost?

These cutting edge coaching tools are normally only available inside the Clutch, my monthly feminist coaching community. But for this masterclass only I’m making them available to everyone, at an even more accessible price.

It took me twenty years, two Ivy League degrees, and tens of thousands of dollars in coaching to learn and create the system I will be teaching in the Stop-Second Guessing Yourself Masterclass. When I only taught this work privately, a group program with me cost $10,000 (true story!).

But you have the chance to catch this 90-minute masterclass replay – that would normally be $250 on its own — for just $37.

access to This limited time replay will expire on May 2.

the replay

$37. That’s about the cost of a coffee shop cold brew for a week.

It’s less than the amount you usually “accidentally” spend when you go to Target for paper towels and leave with a cart full of extra yoga pants and face cream you don’t really need.

And unlike that tenth pair of yoga pants that is just like your other nine pairs, this Masterclass is going to give you something you can’t get anywhere else.

It’s going to teach you the skills you need to stop second-guessing yourself and start living a bigger, more confident life.

No yoga pants are that good, even if you do wear them to yoga
(and let’s be honest, sometimes we don’t even do that!).



  • I’m a life coach — a Master Certified one at that. And I used to be a constant people-pleaser, validation-seeker, and authority-abandoner.
  • I lived my life in constant anxiety, insecurity, and disempowerment until my mid-30s. All the while earning a B.A. from Yale and a J.D. from Harvard Law, holding prestigious fellowships…and still never believing I really had any idea what I was doing or could be trusted to make my own decisions.
  • But I did learn how to think rigorously during my previous career as a women’s rights lawyer. And those are the same brilliant skills I bring to my coaching, which is rooted in cognitive psychology-based techniques and feminist theory.
  • Coaching taught me how to understand my brain and how to change it. And then I spent years putting together the rest of my expertise and experience into a cutting-edge coaching framework. All so you can learn it in a fast, effective, life-changing method.
  • So basically I’m a fun, feminist, non-judgmental combo of life coach, mentor, and hilarious best friend…except I give way better advice than your friends do. And I actually teach you how to act on it. You get it.
  • Buckle up, buttercup. We’re about to kick the patriarchy straight out of your brain. It’s going to be so fun.

The world is always going to keep on turning.

There will always be so many things beyond our control. Whether it’s crisis on the global stage, or ups and downs in our personal lives.

What we can learn to control is how we show up to the challenges the world presents.

In fact, that’s what is essential. Because the more out-of-control the world feels, the more IN-control you need to be of your mind and your life.

That’s what learning to stop second-guessing yourself gives you.

And that’s what we’re going to create in the Stop Second-Guessing Yourself Masterclass.

Let’s go.

access to This limited time replay will expire on May 2.
DO IT! You’ll think you don’t have time, but it SAVES time because you’re likely wasting a lot of time and energy in unnecessary suffering. – Josephine M.

This definitely changed my life. I have always been a person who enjoys self-development (therapy, social work, self-help books, etc.) and to me, this is a program that targets the cores of the issues and gives you the actionable tools to create the life you want. – Rhea R.

Kara’s approach to thoughtwork is empowering and actionable. When you understand how to bridge the gap between your desired and current thoughts, you can literally do anything. This is the only thing that has worked for me. If you’re on the fence, it’s THE best use of your money I could think of. – Kat S.
For BIPOC women, personal development is viewed as a luxury. Even when I engaged a coach for the first time, I saw it as a privilege to talk about my feelings. With feminist coaching tools I view it more as a necessity to not only survive, but to thrive. And I hold firm in my belief that women, particularly Black women, should thrive and never humble themselves into a life of tepid emotional existence. – Chernique V.